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A True Love Story That Touched My Heart

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old man and woman telling their true love story
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What goes on in your mind when you read a true love story?

Let me be the first one to answer this question. Stories about true love always fascinate and inspire me.

True love stories motivate me to open my mind and dig my heart deeper to nurture those selfless pure thoughts and emotions of love.

Such stories of love help me understand the concept of love and relate it to my own life.

I learn a lot about how to make my love reach the heights as depicted in the true love story, but at the same time I remind myself that my life is different and my story of love is unique.

My love story may not be the same as those of others, but the concept of true love remains the same with everybody, no matter what part of the world they live in.

Today, I just want to share a true love story that I’d heard from a dear friend sometime back, and I’m sure it will touch your heart just as it did mine.

But let me first start by asking you, that do you know what true love is?

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What is True Love

Most people who say that they love someone don’t really love them, because they don’t really know what love really is. I don’t say I know it fully well as yet either, but I’m learning.

I do know that love is neither lust, fear, possessiveness, jealousy, nor is it expecting something from someone.

If you wish to know and explore more about what love is, then you need to read my earlier post titled:

>> Understanding true love between two people

Not only love, this post will also make you understand what true love is all about. You’ll come to know that real, true love IS unconditional.

There are many kinds of love and there are also different stages of love, which often culminate at the stage called true love, where the couple become soulmates.

Read through this true love story about a couple’s love for each other and you’d know what I mean.

“Love is giving and it has nothing to do with what you receive.” ~ Dr. Wayne Dyer

A True Love Story

Paul and Wendy were married for 60 years. Though Paul was 84 and Wendy was 80 years old, their love seemed so fresh and young – a bond of true love.

My friend, who is a doctor, first met the senior couple when Paul brought Wendy in a wheelchair to the hospital for a normal check-up.

Who says that only young lovers can spread the fragrance of love?

My friend found this old couple a sight to see – they looked ever so in love, always smiling at each other, and had an aura of understanding around them.

Paul took pride in pushing his wife’s wheelchair and taking care of her, while Wendy showed signs of contentment on her face as she had complete trust and faith in her husband.

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Wendy was suffering from osteoarthritis, and her old age made the matters worse. She needed regular treatment.

After a few weeks of treatment she started improving, however, she still needed to visit the hospital frequently for routine check-ups.

Even though Paul himself wasn’t that fit enough and age had weakened his body, but he was still strong mentally and wouldn’t make any compromises for the love of his life.

He had to travel great distances and spend a lot of money, yet he refused to take her to just any hospital as he only wanted the best treatment for his love.

As time passed by, the serious effects of the disease and failing treatment started showing on Wendy’s health. Yet, my friend could see the love and respect they had for each other.

Paul would just remain quiet and Wendy would read her husband’s love through his silent eyes. They didn’t need any words to express their love, as true love needs no language.

One day, as my friend hadn’t seen the couple for a few days, she called up Paul as part of the routine follow-up on her patients.

That’s when she learnt that Wendy had passed away a week back due to complications of hypertension.

As Paul conveyed all this in a shaky voice to my friend, he broke down. It was the first time in five months since my friend had known him that he cried or showed any helplessness.

He cried on the phone endlessly and uncontrollably. It was the first time his voice showed defeat and pain, which all this time he had concealed in order to give courage to his wife.

He told my friend how empty his house and heart had become, and how he couldn’t sleep nor eat well.

His wife was no longer by his side – but he mentioned how much he still loved her and wished her soul rests in peace.

As my friend was narrating this story, I was finding it tough to control my tears having undergone the loss of my Mom and having seen my Dad go through the same phase. It brought a lump to my throat.

It made me think as to how people cope with such a great loss, and how do they gather the strength and courage to carry on with life – just like my Dad.

Paul and Wendy’s was a true love story, and their love was unconditional and so true.

Young man and woman in true love with each other

Lessons Learnt From This True Love Story

True love isn’t necessarily a domain of young couples and known only by public display of affection.

True love needn’t be overtly expressive but yet it can be the unconditional love lovers yearn for.

To love someone unconditionally in simple words means to love a person without any conditions. You love them as they are, just as they were before, and just as they will be in the future.

That’s because people change all the time, so if you love a person unconditionally, you will love them even if they become something you don’t agree with, or even if they become old and sick – isn’t it?

In unconditional love, the person you love can live his or her life as he or she wants to, and you will still be there for and with them – no matter what.

True love is unconditional love when you love a person for their innermost essence – their soul. You see the person and not the personality.

Your love for them never lessens or dies. It remains through thick and thin – just as it was between Paul and Wendy.

“Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get – only with what you are expecting to give – which is everything.” ~ Katharine Hepburn

It takes courage to love a person unconditionally, which not a lot of people have.

Love is when a time period of 60 years isn’t enough to be with each other – time always falls short.

I’ve seen the love my parents shared, and I can only hope and pray that we can get a little of that in our lives too.

Reading such a true love story, I’ve always thought how a bond of ‘love’ can connect two people in a way that they are inseparable – even if they are in such circumstances.

After going through their story of true love – the beautiful bond and silent understanding, it made me realize that there’s another side to what meets the eye.

It’s true and unconditional love where some people become the centre of another person’s world – they become the very reason their lives are worthwhile.

However, they’re also ready to let go of the person because true love neither creates bondage nor does it ever die.

Didn’t this old couple’s true love prove that love isn’t just a fairytale but rather that it’s a reality?

Remember, you and your partner can become soulmates with each other. All you need to do is become a love teacher to make yours a true love story.

“Love is life. All, everything that I understand, I understand only because I love. Everything is, everything exists, only because I love. Everything is united by it alone.” ~ Leo Tolstoy

Over to you

Have you been in love, if so, what was the feeling like? Do you have any true love stories to share with us? What lesson did you learn from this true love story? Share in the comments.

 

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  1. Debbie D.

    July 24, 2015 at 11:41 pm

    This is a love story for the ages! So heartbreaking when one person dies. You often hear that their spouse soon follows.
    I think I can safely say that hubby and I share this type of enduring and unconditional love, having been married for 42 years and together for almost 44. I fear losing him and he probably feels the same way.

  2. Andrea Juliao

    January 19, 2015 at 10:57 am

    Hi Harleena,

    True love is truly something you can’t get enough off. And time always seems to fall short in your true love’s company. Paul and Wendy’s love story was a sweet read. Wish all of us find our respective Paul’s or Wendy’s someday!

  3. Hamsini

    January 17, 2015 at 10:26 am

    Hi Harleena mam,
    This story is really heart touching . Now I clearly understood what true love means .But most of the teenage people think they that their love is true love but is it really love or just attraction or lust ???

    But I am really inspired by this story .

  4. nicle wiles

    September 15, 2014 at 2:16 am

    this life is what you make it. no matter what pure going to mess up somthing, its a universal truth, but the good part is you get to decide how your going to mess it up girls will be your friend- theyll act like tit anyway. but just remember, some came, some go, the ones that stay with you though everything- theyre your true best friend dont let go of them. also remember , sisters make the best friends in the world. as for lovers, well , they come and go too and baby,i hate to say it, most of them, actually prettty much all of them are going to break your heart, but you cant give up because if you give up, youll never find your soulmate. youll never that half that make you hole and that goes for everything , just because you fail ones, dosint mean your gonna fail at everything. keep trying , hold on, and always, always, always belive in yourself , because if you dont, then who will, sweety? so keep your head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because lifes a beautiful thing and theres so much to smile blouit day 1 what you give is priceless day 2 there are more ways to be happy than anyone can imagine day 3 why settle for good when your life can be grat day 4 a wish is a powerful thing day 5 say yes to less stress day 6 you dont have to be perfect too be beautiful day 7 give yourself a compliment its true . marilyn monroe

  5. John

    April 3, 2014 at 11:34 am

    I was so amazed with Paul and Wendy’s love story. It’s a great example of what true love means. Thank you for sharing their story, I remember my grandparents who are also much like Paul and Wendy.

    They say that you can give without loving, but you can’t love without giving. That’s what unconditional love means to me. Love is all about giving, caring, and actually doing anything for the one you love.

    Thanks Harleena for sharing this to everyone!

  6. Harry

    January 26, 2014 at 4:31 pm

    Hi Harleena,
    Really very heart touchy story. I can understand the feeling of love. I think love is svery beautiful things in any bodies life. This story will inspire to all of couples, who are in love with each other. Thanks for sharing this story.

  7. priyanka

    December 29, 2013 at 7:05 pm

    Hi Harleena,

    It was surely a heart touching story and i do believe that love is not about expecting anything.love is selfless,it’s all about giving.i understood this feeling only when i experienced this and i am thankfull to god that i got to know a person who changed my whole life and concept of love,life everything.I don’t know what is going to be my future(as he is not talking to me and my family is also not allowing us )but i am very happy that i got to know what true love is.
    Thanks for sharing such a beautiful story. Stay blessed.

  8. shiwangi shrivastava

    December 7, 2013 at 8:13 pm

    Mam, You somehow somewhere readily agree with me also there is no more existence of true love. But one thing is very sure we enjoy love, pamper,devotion and care not only in tale but also in real life. There is always a hunger for selfless love inside in living or non living but unable to do the same because of the mindset we have in todays life.
    Your post always leave a strong impact on readers mind. Thanks a ton for sharing.

  9. Anthony

    September 3, 2013 at 2:39 pm

    A very touching story! Harleena.

    What makes a love last is the attitude towards to problems. An old couple have been married for 65 years shared this tip when they are asked how their love could last so long. They simply said: “Because we both grow up in the time when things broke, we just fixed it instead of threw it away.”

  10. Ema stone

    July 15, 2013 at 4:46 pm

    Nice love story. Me and my boyfriend both love each other too much. By reading your story I inspired to continue my relation till my death. Now I’ll talk to my parents about marriage. Wish me luck 4 happy married life.




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A True Love Story That Touched My Heart

by Harleena Singh time to read: 6 min